Whether your model weight like wildnkc or Tubby McLardCore like myself, everyone deserves love.
this means a lot, my boyfriend considers him self fat no matter what I tell him. One of my best guy friends thinks no one will date him because he is over weight which is the most un true thing every. All guys bodies are attractive.
This means a lot to me too because my boyfriend also thinks he’s fat regardless of what I say. The saddest day was when I watched him step on a scale and get sad at a number he saw. Spread the love.
I’m fat and I approve this message
I approve this message also, but, themodelcitizens is NOT fat.
I call bullshit on gay guys liking big guys. I’m not saying it’s impossible to find a guy that would want a relationship with a big guy, but it seems like most gay guys don’t even want a relationship period. If you don’t fall with in the strict boundaries of the “ideal” gay guy, it’s almost like you are shunned. Not attacking anyone, but it’s SO EASY for someone who is not over weight to conclude that it is “not hard” to find someone who genuinely likes you. I have friends who say stuff like “Ewww, he’s not my type, he’s fat” but then on the same note wonder why I don’t have a man. Honestly, I never had a problem with my weight until I started dating men. THIS IS a problem within our community, just like the discrimination with fems and trans. And if you don’t think so, just log on to jackd and grindr and see how many times you see the following infamous phrase: “no fats, no fems.” Interestingly, the ones who said my boyfriends think they are fat and that they feel sad, shows the negative thinking behind being fat. To achieve what the purpose of the post is, we would have to overcome the stigma of fat being negative. Personally, if someone says they are fat, I say, “so what. Does that make you any less of a person?” #Thinkaboutit